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I AM
NOT A MISTAKE, I AM MEANT TO BE
Greetings
readers,
Thank you
being a supporter of the vision that God has
given this ministry to see that sexually
abused victims are healed. Thank you for
your questions. I will try to answer them
so that you may be released by the truth of
the word. If you have concerns about this
topic or know someone who has been abused
and you desire to assist them in getting the
help that they need, please send those
concerns/questions to
www.glhinesministries.com.
THE SECRET IS
OUT
From the
ages of 10-17 I was constantly abused by my
step brother. As of a result, I have no
desire to be with a man. I have been living
a lesbian lifestyle for the last three
years, but I know this is not right. My
mother found out and I denied it because I
don’t know how to tell her. My mother is a
very spiritual person with a strong sense of
discernment. She said the Spirit revealed
it to her, but I still denied it. I don’t
want to stay in this lifestyle, but I feel
I’m stuck. Can you help me?
My covenant sister,
What you are facing is normal for some
victims of sexual abuse. First of all, you
need to understand the love of God and His
desire for your life. Read Jeremiah
29:11--the plans God has for you.
Understand that His love and plan has not
changed for your life. Secondly, it seems
that your mother is a prayer warrior and if
you respect the anointing on her life and
believe the spirit revealed this to her, I
believe this would be a good time to share
your true feelings with her. This could be
the door opening to your deliverance. In
addition, I would be open and honest with
your mother so that she can be able to help
you, or at least walk through with you. As
parents, we never want to see our children
hurt, but sometimes they do hurt and we
can’t really help them. I would break off
the relationship that you’re currently in
and begin to seek God for deliverance. If
you are not involved in a spirit filled,
bible teaching church, please get involved.
Become active in ministry, stay in bible
study and Sunday school (if you have one),
but, above all, surround yourself with Godly
women who you trust with your baggage. Keep
in mind, everyone cannot handle this so be
careful who you look to for guidance.
Check in your area to see if there are any
counseling programs that minister to sexual
addictions. I attended a ministry in my
area that thoroughly helped me to walk
free. I am proud of your desire to be free
and will share in more detail with you
off-line. |
